in that it's coolly calculated and thoughtfully designed.
in that it's consistent and coherent.
in that it's focused and limited.
in that it's intensely personal yet genuinely communal.
in that it's precisely articulated and unambiguously clear;
simple on the ear.
in that it's sincere and built on love...
or oft-repeated and oft-received...
Friday, 22 April 2011
Watched this Indian film ('3 idiots') earlier today (since it had a rating of at least 7.5 on IMDB [passing my Litmus test]) and was really impressed. Well thought-out movie with good morals in mind. Made me really appreciate the choice I made a few months back not to go for a consulting or banking job and pursue instead that which I enjoy and am not so bad at... (software) engineering. No joke, I really enjoy it and would pay to work with the people I work with if I didn't have life's bills to pay :)>
Sunday, 17 April 2011
The difference between good and bad relationships
is not whether there is conflict
- all relationships have conflict;
it's how we get to know one another -
but how we deal with it.
Vital and nourishing,
seeing it for what it is,
it's time to worry instead
when not sharing views is the more attractive course.
(Consolidation of the chapter entitled 'Fight Club' in the 'Tough Love' section of 'The Mind Gym: Relationships'. Good book!)
Saturday, 16 April 2011
Be not afraid to try.
Failure isn't fatal.
The idea is to fail fast
in an idea that's wrong,
not getting emotionally attached to a sinking ship,
and move on,
not repeating mistakes.
See failure as a stepping stone to whatever you do next;
one step smarter.
(Summary of a feature article in this month's Wired magazine)